I grew up in a family where food was not the only main course, but it was time we spent together while enjoying and indulging in food. Every meal we ate together was never around a tv but was spent with phones unanswered and us gathered around the table with our meal. My kitchen was also the dining area where we picked at food before the main meal. Our kitchen table would have a spot light from the light above and we turned off the other main lights leaving the table as a display of good food and even better conversation. My mother grew up on a farm learning to cook since she could remember and my dad grew up with a passion for food and an eye for creativity. My dad was a salesman but of course sold food products such as cheese, meats, and condensed milk. He was the top salesman and recently I just entered a job in sales but I think I would be better at sales if I was selling what he was. It may just be me but I bond with people over food. Just talking about certain dishes and recipes is how I have made new friends. I could literally talk about food for hours! (Thank god I'm not 300 pounds yet either) Maybe it's because my parents started their own restaurant and my dad got his culinary arts degree, or maybe it's because food has always been an important aspect in my life. Specifically I love food, eating it, making it, researching it, and talking about it but food is what always brought my family to the dinner table for uninterrupted time together. Now my family isn't whole anymore without my dad but we still keep the tradition alive and continue to add more to our kitchen table.
Mallory this was really good. I would love to hear some of your recipes. I would also love to have a family built somewhere along that same tradition, any tips? I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I know he is proud of you! I would like to cook more as well maybe a few tips
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, I really appreciate that. The only tips I can suggest is hide the electronics and make sure that you designate time as family time. When I was younger is when my parents started their restaurant so we didn't have as many family dinners so we designated every Sunday night to have dinner and focus on our meal and each other. I will be trying to post as much as I can as well as recipes and reviews on restaurants. I'm still a chef in training and learning new things every day about cooking so I will definitely share them as I grow. It's so good to hear from you and I am so happy to see you've started a family! Your daughter is too cute :)
DeleteWhy do you suggest hiding the electronics? For my family time can it consist of anything I want it do or should I focus on something we both or all like to do as a whole? When your family had family time what did it consist of? Any games or such? It's nice to see you are making it out here and following your dreams I really wanna follow mine. Thanks for the compliment on my little girl. She is my everything
ReplyDeleteThe reason being is because if the phone rings or you get a text, people seem to get really distracted with their phones, tablets, computers, etc. A fun way to do that especially with a group of friends around your age is have everyone stack their phones in the middle of the table for the whole dinner. If someone touches their phone and looks at it they have to pay for everyone's meal or wash all the dishes and clean up. Just a fun way to motivate others from playing with their phones. When we hang out its normally just sitting around the kitchen and munching on appetizers as well as helping prep and cook the meal as a family. When my smaller cousins are around we normally turn the tv off and play games or have arts and crafts. Get your family involved especially around the holiday season such as baking goods like simple sugar cookies and having the kids decorate them!
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